lilredwolph
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- May 17, 2002
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that if i held myself to the drawn lines many here have, i would not be concidered a submissive at all.
back when there was no name or written rules for this lifestyle, a sub was a sub and a dom was a dom, nobody had to live up to anybody else's standard. i just find myself seeing all this "if i say or ask am i topping from the bottom?" " does that make me a bad sub?" " i want this or that so i must be less of a sub than so and so." it's crazy people you are what you are within YOUR relationship. nobody else's pays your bills or wipes your ass so why does how they live their life make you any more or less of anything?
here's alittle something that would make me seem as if i am topping from the bottom at all times (but in MY world it makes me nothing more than who and what i am)
when there is a new or differant forms of play that I, He or We want to try or find interesting, i research it as much as possible, than when i am ready i learn how to do it, i practice everything on myself for days, weeks or even months before i feel i am good enough or know enough to teach He how to do the play. he using what i teach him when and how he wants to. does this mean i am topping from the bottom because i am just as (if not more) proficient than my Dom at forms of play? no not in my mind and not to He. i have learned and taught him forms of play that i have no interest in what so ever, but he wanted to use the play with one of his slaves, so i did what i do best, i made Him happy.
this is rambling and pointless but it has just been eating at me for awhile now
back when there was no name or written rules for this lifestyle, a sub was a sub and a dom was a dom, nobody had to live up to anybody else's standard. i just find myself seeing all this "if i say or ask am i topping from the bottom?" " does that make me a bad sub?" " i want this or that so i must be less of a sub than so and so." it's crazy people you are what you are within YOUR relationship. nobody else's pays your bills or wipes your ass so why does how they live their life make you any more or less of anything?
here's alittle something that would make me seem as if i am topping from the bottom at all times (but in MY world it makes me nothing more than who and what i am)
when there is a new or differant forms of play that I, He or We want to try or find interesting, i research it as much as possible, than when i am ready i learn how to do it, i practice everything on myself for days, weeks or even months before i feel i am good enough or know enough to teach He how to do the play. he using what i teach him when and how he wants to. does this mean i am topping from the bottom because i am just as (if not more) proficient than my Dom at forms of play? no not in my mind and not to He. i have learned and taught him forms of play that i have no interest in what so ever, but he wanted to use the play with one of his slaves, so i did what i do best, i made Him happy.
this is rambling and pointless but it has just been eating at me for awhile now