I'm an easy going, down to earth, friendly guy with a "normal" life, but also a kinky side :) I've been in bdsm for about 20 years (on/off at times) and have extensive experience in various aspects of the Lifestyle.
Although I have experienced and enjoyed various kinks over the years, I find myself drawn more to the emotional and psychological dynamic of the lifestyle. For me, BDSM is first between your ears :) Once the mind submits, then the body automatically follows and you reach a stage where words, instructions and titles are no longer necessary. Just a glance, a gesture or squeeze of my subs hand, should be enough to pull her back in line, or know what I want or am thinking. Certainly a beautiful dynamic - but one, which is not always easy to achieve.
I would love to chat with subs who are interested in a similar dynamic or open to learn more about it - baby girls also welcome :)
Location
Netherlands