Deny the Science

A couple of months ago I was in the presence of two men: one of whom with which I had had delightful - IMO - squirt-worthy sex with several times, and the other 1/2 of a m/f married couple who had approached me with the idea of being a third in a threesome. I may be unusual in this, but when I think of MMF, I am turned on by the idea of the men focusing on each other with me positioned as the slightly hands-on participant but certainly not the center of the sensual activity. A woman who is turned on by watching two men suck each other's cocks? Yes, and for those of you who suddenly see me as perverse or a "dirty-minded" woman, I'd ask you to consider whether you would label a man in an MFF situation who wanted to play a similar role in a similarly disparaging way, or do you have a double standard when it comes to gender roles in and out of the "bedroom" (bedroom seems so pedestrian, doesn't it, for aren't there far more creative and interesting places to engage each other sexually?)

So, now that I've lost 1/2 of my male readers - who wants a woman who thinks and isn't afraid to express her opinion - I'll tell you that the threesome encounter did not happen, for a variety of reasons, although I did get to fondle the erect cock of the new meet (or should that be new meat) while he licked my erect nipples, it did not go further.

However, for the 1/2 of the male audience that is left I want to communicate a scientific fact. Women do not have nerve endings in their vagina the way you do in your cock or they do in their clit. Shock of all shock, that means we women cannot feel a cock in our vaginas the same way the cock can feel it is buried up to the balls in a nice, juicy hot pussy. The response to this FACT from my male lovers is often shock, disbelief, disappointment, and anger at me for spoiling the fun. SORRY, boys, I am not the goddess who created female anatomy and although we might wonder what she was thinking from a "hoping to orgasm" point of view, we know what she was thinking from a "pushing out a 6 - 10 lb baby" point of view. You try pushing a baby that size out your cock hole and see what you feel about nerve endings then. Orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, then, is rare. Don't believe me, Google it. 85 % or fewer women experience it in their lifetime. IN THEIR LIFETIME. And I suspect the women who do are probably experiencing clitoral stimulation via the thrusting of a penis, or are having their G spot stimulated, or . . . who knows, girls, let me in on your secret and I'll share it with the 85% of us who are missing out.

All right, to the hardy men who are still reading, bravo, you have a good grip on your masculinity (just don't rub it too hard until you finish reading please)! PLEASE DO NOT LET THIS FACT a) hit you like a mortal blow to your sexual prowess - IT DOES NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HOW GOOD OR NOT YOU ARE - or b) spoil your fun. Does it look like it spoils ours? We do feel something with an erect cock thrusting away, and for most of us, what we feel is very pleasurable. However, attention to the way the female anatomy produces an orgasm is also very nice! VERY NICE! Did I say it loud enough? VERY, VERY, NICE. Maybe nice isn't a strong enough word. It feels GREAT to have an orgasm. No, no I still don't have it. It feels FUCKING EYES ROLLING BACK IN MY HEAD MIND BLOWINGLY WONDERFUL to have an orgasm! Oh, lots of other things you do to/with me sexually feel great too, and btw, I don't have a problem cumming through vaginal penetration. I have a problem with lovers who think I have a problem because I don't orgasm through vaginal penetration. Fondle, suck, rub, lick my clit long enough before you thrust into me and I might. Fondle, suck, rub, lick my clit WHILE thrusting your cock in me and I definitely will orgasm (while you scream because you've put your back out trying out the strangest position possible to do all four things at once).

Ok there is probably only one male reader left at this point and congratulations to you for sticking with it long enough (see, size does matter, well at least the size of your attention span). Being willing to listen to some suggestions about a woman's desire for complete sexual satisfaction without feeling threatened, angry, annoyed, disappointed with me for spilling the facts - not with the woman who have faked it so you'll feel good about yourself - to you I say, hurrah!

Oh, and I'm free Friday night for some hands on science if you are!