Female Non-Consent Fantasies

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Why women are NOT being demeaned in non-consent literature.
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LaSalia
LaSalia
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Often on this site we see trolls who berate authors for their use of non-consent and misogyny. Said trolls erroneously determine that the author either A: hates women, or B: hates herself. These assumptions are both faulty on the same grounds. Primarily the reason is because women are more likely to read and enjoy rape fantasies than men due to societal boundaries that are imposed on women both now and throughout history. This paper shall attempt to shed some light on why women are NOT being demeaned in non-consent literature and that women who read it actually require higher self esteem than women who would be uncomfortable reading such works.

I've been a Feminazi. I've taken everything the wrong way and believed women are superior to men. I'm older and wiser, now, and realize that equality is much more favorable. That being said, I don't stand for the mistreatment of women. Friends whose husbands/boyfriends are abusive have always had a shoulder to cry on and a bedroom to use when I strongly encourage them to dump his ass. The problem is, however, I've noticed a sad trend in some of my female friends: they have unrealistic expectations in relationships. They expect to be treated like princesses, but don't bother to treat their men like princes, more like servants.

If a woman mistreats a man, he develops mistrust not only of her, but of all women. It is thereby important that women treat men like they'd like to be treated, and vice versa. This is why I hate the fact that Femdom is lauded when Maledom is demonized. If men can freely fantasize about being dominated then why the double standard for women? HISTORY! Women have been dominated in the patriarchal societies common to today's world. Women's Suffrage, however, has made huge strides in raising the bar for women. It has not been fully realized, but it is so much better than what it used to be.

Opponents of non-consent fantasies fear that this kind of erotica damages the delicate female psyche into accepting poor treatment, thereby backpedaling the equality movement. This, however, is absurd. Anyone who believes that a woman who has fantasies of being dominated by a powerful male against her will would ever actually stand for such a thing in real life is ignorant and vile and undervalues a woman's mental powers. These people still believe in the "weaker sex" needing protection.

Let me put it to you this way: when a woman walks into a bar with her tits half out of her shirt and her skirt climbing up her ass, is she asking to be raped? Nope. She's looking for attention. Women have a long history of pushing men to their breaking points and laughing at them. Flaunting what men can't have. It's a power struggle that we usually win. However, it's also a game, and a dangerous one. Part of the rush you get from playing, is the thought that you might lose. Most women are smart enough not to play, because the risks are too high, but in fantasy, we can do whatever we want.

A woman who reads non-consent must be strong and have high self esteem, otherwise the story would not be erotic; it would be frightening. Knowing it could be her, because she often flaunts herself because she mistakes attention for respect, that's a nightmare. Losing control over her already uncontrollable life would not interest a low self esteem woman. However, a woman who doesn't need the constant attention and doesn't put herself in dangerous situations like that can more fully enjoy the fantasy of losing all control. Or a woman who enjoys the thrill of danger, well, she likes the descriptions of what's at stake without the actual loss.

That's what non-consent is really about: surrendering control. Most women have to fight tooth and nail for control over their lives. Giving it up is something most just won't do, even willingly. In a non-consent fantasy, that choice isn't an issue. They can surrender to the fantasy of what they would never do in real life and not have to face the consequences.

And what would they never do? It's not just "be raped." It goes far deeper than that. Sexuality, for women, is still a challenge. Sexual women are penalized by almost every part of society even today. Allowing themselves to do what men do, sow wild oats, gain experience, learn how to please themselves first, is still strongly taboo. In a rape fantasy, the woman who loses control isn't a slut, she isn't a whore, because she didn't consent, in spite of acting like a loose woman. Even under the barrage of misogynist comments the rapists will undoubtedly use a woman reader will know the difference. She will know not to blame the victim, even if she orgasms. She will know that the woman is still a "good woman" with morals and values.

It is important for women to realize that the responses of their bodies do not always coincide with their thoughts and feelings. I hear all the time that for women sex is more emotional than physical. Sometimes that is true, but most of the time it's bullshit. If a man finds the right buttons and triggers, she won't be able to help getting wet and maybe even orgasming. It's a natural physical response, one that men all over the world are familiar with. Guys know they can close their eyes and it doesn't matter how gross the chick is, so long as she fucks him right. Women are only just realizing that this is normal, and liberating.

So the next time you read a misogynistic non-consent story, stop to ask if you're outraged because you think it hurts women's fragile reputations or because you can't believe a woman can have the same basic responses as a man. Sorry ladies, we're NOT better than men, we're just good at pretending to be.

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Sara_Navy_WifeSara_Navy_Wifeabout 2 months ago

Thank you LaSalia for expressing so well what I cannot even express to myself! At college, I was abducted in broad daylight and raped. Bad at it was, I could not understand why my body betrayed me and orgasmed not just once but three times! I hated the inner slut that made me respond to them. They called me all manner of vile names and I orgasmed anyway! Fortunately, someone had seen or heard something, and called the police.

The shame I felt in the courtroom was even worse than the rape! The lawyers called me a slut and a whore, because I jogged alone and was wearing gym shorts instead of plate armour. The men had pulled along side me, and kindly asked for directions. My mistake was trying to be helpful. That hesitation gave the men time to overpower me.

Many many times, I went over the events in my mind. I found that I got wet while remembering being abused. I do not understand why my body reacted that way! You have at least partly explained it. Apparently my body involuntarily responded to their sexual excitement. Maybe it was a primitive survival response; I do not know. All I do know is that the men saw and felt me orgasm, and took it as a sign that I liked being raped. They gave me a limited amount of freedom, and took me for walks to stretch my cramped legs. I did not resist them, but whoever called the police saw that my body language did not look right. I am grateful for that, and I am grateful for your efforts to explain why my body responded. It may have saved my life! Who knows?

AnonymousAnonymousover 2 years ago

I like noncon stories, but I always get confused by the 'romantic' stories where some overbearing asshat unilaterally decides that the lead female is his and keeps pushing even when she says no. My exvangelist friend explained it to me, though. In traditional, conservative patriarchy, women get reviled for wanting or enjoying sex, so that type of story is a way for it to happen guilt-free.

I still don't like that genre, but I get it now. Doesn't make it acceptable IRL though

AnonymousAnonymousabout 3 years ago
Great take

I agree I am a reader who enjoys non consent I find it erotic love dominate men but irl I would never stand for it lived with an abuser for 4 years suffered domestic violence sometimes I think I have issues but ure essay actually made me feel better so thank u

ObedientPetgirlObedientPetgirlover 3 years ago

This was a very nuanced take. In all honesty, I can't say I fully understood all of it, just because it was a bit of a difficult read for me, but the parts I did understand, I was very appreciative to see portrayed in an essay. There's a lot of truth here, and I'm glad you're normalizing this.

TheronMTheronMover 5 years ago
Grateful for your honesty, fairness and clarity.

Thank you LaSalia! There is already enough shame to heal from past patriarchal, misogynistic or traditionalist cultures. Those cultures serve humanity until modern times liberated large numbers of people to focus on their inner lives including fantasy. For the past few years I've been blessed to be in a relationship that is fully and mutually satisfying and I've learned to channel my fantasies into my marriage. I wish more people learned this at an earlier age.

Fantasy is not reality. Slavery and coercion are inherently wrong. Women still need to learn to be honest about their power over men. Men still need to be responsible for growing up emotionally so they can love and be loved.

I hope to offer writings of my own when I've edited them properly and would be open to your feedback when that time comes.

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