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- How to Panty Your Husband
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Click hereWhen I meet new women dipping their toes in the kinky lifestyle, one question I'm often asked is, "Why would you panty your husband?"
Gosh, where to start. First a disclaimer: Not all pantied men have small penises. However, the term "pantied" usually encompasses an entire set of kinky activities including adopting a more female-led relationship, submission, and erotic humiliation.
Yes, a lot of women like their guys in panties - and a big cock in panties can be sexy as hell! But a pantied husband, in my experience, is most often a husband with shortcomings ... and everyone in the relationship not only acknowledges it - but celebrates it.
So the first reason to panty your man is acceptance. If his penis fits into a snug little pair of panties, he is tiny. He knows it, you know it, the question is - is anyone bringing this little fact out in the open. When you do, your man will likely feel incredible relief. He just wants to be able to talk about, and sexualize, his small penis. Give him a chance to showcase his cute little guy!
Another thing to realize is this isn't necessarily some huge lifestyle switch (though it can be). It's sexual play, intended to help adults have fun and grow close. Much of what you see online is extreme and exaggerated! Keep that in mind. Pantying your man does NOT mean you need to go sleeping with other guys the next day. Some couples do build on pantying; however, many keep it as a part of their sex lives.
You are always allowed to have your man take you like a wild animal. He's your husband, after all! Many men are extremely macho, despite being secretly pantied at home.
Pantying your man will, in my experience, cause an immediate shift in the balance of power in your home and in your relationship. Even "tough guys" often soften up, become more submissive, and willing to help.
Those are just a few of the reasons why. Let's talk about how.
Starting out slowly is a good idea. "Honey, I had a wicked thought - try on these panties for me!" He might be reluctant, but you will know his true reaction by the reaction of his little guy. If your man has a small penis, and you have him strip and step into panties for you as you ohh and ahh, I can almost guarantee he will get hard, and instantly.
If his body is responsive, you are off and running ... on the way to a sweeter, submissive husband. Isn't that what we all want, girls? Next you can buy him panties, or even take him shopping. Have a sales girl walk him around the store if you are daring and naughty!
Give him a special panty drawer, so you don't "get them confused." What you are really doing is getting him very used to the idea that he now wears panties. So, do you want him in panties and a Victoria's Secret night shirt every night? Let him know. Start to lay down ground rules.
Gradually show him the balance of power is shifting in your home. Maybe your routine becomes he gets home from work, undresses in front of you, and showers with the curtain open. There's no need for modesty, let him know his little penis hardly shocks you. He can change in front of you, too.
Ladies, use your charms. Give his little penis a soft, warm blowjob when he listens. Or give him a tender handjob ... switching to just two fingers to emphasize how tiny he is. Another common aspect of a pantied husband / female-led relationship is to switch up the way you make love. Feel free to let your special guy know it's time for "little penis" sex, or "sissy sex." Then after he tries to satisfy you, have him use a dildo on you.
Of course, point out the significant difference. A small penis can't work in so many positions, such as a man sitting on the couch and a woman straddling him (facing him or facing away). Hint at how you miss real sex, and tell him his main duty is to please you orally. He'll be an expert in no time!
Remember ladies, a pantied hubby wants to worship his wife, so give him every reason to. Dress sexy, wear stockings, garters, and let your wild side out. Couples in the hotwife or fem-led lifestyles often report better health: If your body is on display constantly, chances are you want to get and stay fit.
In short (no pun intended), pantying your man will probably bring you two closer than you've ever been. Take the lifestyle any direction you wish ... it's your sexlife. Read blogs, read sites such as Literotica, and keep your little man guessing with what naughty suggestion you'll have next. Good luck, ladies!
- COMMENTS
Dmitryover 11 years agothoughts on this story. I am very happy for you and your husband and the word I am looking for is CONDITIONING. So let pretend for a second that the "job" you did on your husband will work for some time. What happenes to his mental state, when his "rewards" will no longer be as stimulating and fresh as before. I bet that little puppet of yours will become very frastrated, angry and potentially violent, as your imagination may go "dry" as you no longer be able to produce. Since, you clame, it so easy to condition your mate, there is also a possability that the conditioning may be reversed by other factors that are out of your control. There may be another female that potentially may contiently or not "unpoisen" your husbans mind. What will happen to you????? You are very facinating girl and man tend to gravitate towards such speciments, us sexually you may match their sex drive and the risk taking that brings the highs in the relationship, but as a man, I have to go on the defence for all of us with the testostorone and say that as an occasional "bedroom" play it may do wonders, as I am sure you can come up wth few more tricks, but as a lifestyle....I am not sure. One more point-you somehow are picking on the men with small plumming, so the ones with larger ones are somehow safe from your conditioning, making them perheps superiour. Superiour to you perheps???
So ,if by chance, in other reality, your husband happen to have a BIG one, what are you going to do with all that bag of tricks and the urges of yours to sadistically destroy your mates will. He may play a number on you. Would you like an outcome like that? Probably not. Thank you.
OOAAover 11 years agoExcellent story!!!
Very sexy and exciting writing to push up the excitement in a couple and begin to share new feelings in the relationship. Thank you!
Anonymousover 11 years agoAs a man who has worn panties for over 50 years, every day, and for many reasons, One thing it makes me feel closer to women in general. I have much respect, and admiration for women. I feel for all they go through in life, and the panties make me feel closer to them, a kinship of sorts. Any man knows that women have the power, if they choose to use it. The world might be a better place if they took more control. As for me outwardly I am a man's man. Toolmaker by trade, raced motorcycles, love sports Trains etc. by no means a wimp. I am sure there are a lot more out there like me. I feel closer to my woman, and try to show it. If a woman panties her husband it can be a good rewarding thing for both of them, and they feel wonderful.
Anonymousover 11 years agoAnd my comments are based on the story, by no means is this a personal attack on the author.
With that said i think we can all agree that in this day and age the percentage of couples that go to the alter with out
having sex is close to zero. So a woman knows what she is getting. If she is woman that needs a large cock to be
happy she has a choice to accept or not marry this man.
Now I can't image a man that would accept this type of disrespect for his God given short comings, if you will, I
compare it to a flat chested woman. Would she want to have attention borough to it ? I think not.
Now let's say there is such man that will accept this type of treatment. Why would a woman stay with him ?
I personally like a man with a backbone.
Now let's touch on woman in the so called " Hot Wife" life style. What kind of man accepts that disrespect.?
Why not just accept the fact you are a mis matched couple and move on.
Call me old fashion if you will but, I will stick with my marriage which is based on Love and respect and a equal
partnership.
As far as panties go, that is where i put my foot down. I will wear the panties in my family ! Smile
To the author thanks for writing.
Kim
Anonymousover 11 years agowhat you have written is true. As a panty wearing, small penis male when women have me wear panties it is a real turn-on althought embarrassing and humbling.
happywife82over 11 years agoAuthorthis site is intense! but so is the entire internet. please allow me to set a few things straight: i wrote this story for my husband. i posted it here for him, and allowed voting at the suggestion of a comment below.
i don't know what i'm competing for, or what my rank is - i can't even find this story when i search for it not logged in!
i replied to that first negative comment because it wasn't criticism - it was what passes for criticism on the net these days. 1. attack the person personally, and 2. make a comment based on emotion rather than reason.
to those of you who liked it, thanks. to those of you who didn't, again i'm curious why you are reading stories tagged this way!
: )
0ra11yfix8edover 11 years agoNicely done "happywife82"!!! You've managed to engender fierce criticism and enthusiastic support. The truth of the matter is that all households are female led!
A woman can lead by what she expects or by what she allows. A woman can take a relationship in the direction she wants quickly or she can keep it from going in a direction she dislikes by curbing the things she finds distasteful. Most women tend to be passive and therefore use the latter approach which most men absolutely abhor! The proof? Why do so many men claim that they just don't understand women? The cure? Be the leader he wants you to be. You don't have to be so obvious that the entire world knows that you "wear the pants in the family". And dressing your man as a sissy isn't healthy either. But getting him to wear panties and being very clear about what you expect out of him will make for a long and healthy marriage!
Anonymousover 11 years agoTo the happy wife,
Iam loving this story! Iam loving to you! Iam wanting to marrrying you and wear the yellow or pinks underways. but not green underways okay? yes! maybe the yellow or pinks thongs underways. Always i to wear them. is good! like my country, more womens need to wearing the man underways and the womans wearing the man underways. to the womans go the powers! yes? iam liking this.
you must to rwitering more stores like this store, happy wife. yes? Maybe iam meeting you some day but proberbly not. so iam needing more stores for to educatering to my wife future. on wedding hunymoon i will to wearing womans underways and now wife take them off and fucking to my dirty whole. is best!!
iam having big pines almost 27cm long. not small pines like mans from indonesia so iam buying size bigger underways to fit my pines.
to all that peoples complain mine englihs--- iam knowing mine englihs not so good but iam speakering your langauge betterer than what you speakering mine langauge.
Pistolpackinpeteover 11 years ago...how to turn angst into festering hatred. And this IS a male bashing article no matter how you look at it. You couldn't help yourself could you?
Absalomrideover 11 years agoHe IS in the top list and that has nothing to do with the first comment. He trawled with the title - guarranteed to attract a frenzy of hate and indignation. Yet judging from the comments alone some people have enjoyed this story. That legitimizes it from author trolling and should allow it to be judged on merit rather than content. After all, you won't have to step far off your erotitic trail on Lit before you're confronted with immoral deviation!
Risible rather than offensive, "Pansies in panties" is hardly twisted in comparison to anything in the incest section, for example - with thousands of followers, most of who are certainly normal in their reality. I peronally find most of the stories in Romance even more of an abomination, as 'love' has always fucked me up good!
Now I'm up there on the soapbox beside you Frozenclit. And neither of us (so say your profile) has made the contribution of a story to the site yet. Fancy a collaboration...
