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- Spite Fucking for the Judgmental
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I am not a fan of people who judge others for their sexual proclivities be it orientation, kinks, actions, etc. I'm of the belief that as long as all participants are consenting adults then it's none of my business how other people opt to have sex.
Unless they choose to share and I find it sexy to hear about or watch...then it's still not my business, but it is fun.
I am not out about my personal...unconventional sexual needs...in my very vanilla life. I am, however, openly sex positive and will offer my live and let live opinion when it comes up. There is a segment of the feminist movement that, while decrying male control over what is acceptable for us sexually, want to control what is acceptable for all women sexually.
I've been called pro-rape, a rape apologist, and a traitor to women for expressing the opinion that as a consenting adult I have the right to give someone with whom I chose to share my body as much as access as I desire.
Being profoundly aroused by the dominance of a man doesn't mean I want the 19th amendment repealed.
Conversations like that get me totally on board with spite fucking against judgy people.
Very on board with line crossing dirty talk - we can blow way past any lines they can draw...and I will fantasize about you enjoying my consent waiver in very, very explicit and dirty ways.
And I think as a woman I should make a statement asserting my right to suck your cock not just for my own pleasure - which would be immense and why I come so hard when I rub my clit while thinking about taking you deep in my mouth - but I would enjoy infuriating them with the fact that I want to do it for you.
To be on my knees before you, a man, while you tell me how to suck you. As you grab a fistful of my hair to guide my mouth...and to alternate between gentle stroking and yanking hard enough to pull my head back...knowing that drenches my pussy.
As look up at you with your cock buried deep in my mouth you can see my plea in my eyes...begging you to let me finger my pussy while I suck you.
Even without words you know. "No. Don't you dare touch yourself."
I can't help but obey you, but when I drop my hand to my thigh you aren't sure you can trust me and pull your cock out of my mouth, "put your hands behind your back and don't move." you voice firm but with a thickness which belies your urgent need to get back in my mouth..
My knees starting to ache, my arms behind my back as I feel the cords winding around my wrists tightly. My wet cunt aching all the more now that I know I'm unable to reach it. Completely at your mercy as your cock is inches from my face you make me beg. Beg to suck you. Beg for you to fuck my mouth. I need it so badly I start to cry as you again grab my hair and begin fucking my mouth. No slow entry this time ...you hit the back of my throat with a surge of precum on the first stroke...the sound of my chocking and gagging on your cock makes it swell and you didn't think you could get any harder.
When you get close you pull out and stroke yourself slowly inches from my face. I beg you to come all over me and with that you spray your warm cum all over my breasts...landing across face...in my mouth.
After the final stream lands across my lips you stare at me and survey your handiwork. I'm shaking so hard it's difficult to remain upright. Your voice soft now, "such a good girl." You pull out your phone and start taking pictures. "You need to see how beautiful you look covered in my cum." I'm flooded with shame and arousal...as you knew I would be.
I wonder what would make them more angry. If when I'm covered in your warm cum you release my restraints and finally order me to finger my pussy and come for you it's so intense I can't stop coming or moaning your name?
Or, if when I'm done and shaking so hard you kneel down next to me wrapping me in a blanket, put your arms around me and kiss my forehead while you gently wipe me off...bringing your cum soaked fingers to my mouth watching me lick it off ...telling me I was your good girl...your perfect little slut.
Terms of endearment they would not find endearing but ones that make me instantly wet and cause a longing for your cock deep in my cunt .:..or...that I thanked you for letting me come and clearly loved every thing about this? Collapsed into you, my head on your chest, so spent and cherishing that moment of perfect happiness before life once again intrudes.
I don't think they'd let me join their little man haters club but I'm sure you'd find a way to cushion the blow.
- COMMENTS
Buffy_kggover 6 years agoAuthorI appreciate your taking the time to comment. I wasn't referring to this site or erotica in any sense when I spoke of jidgmental people. Irl I had several lively discussions with some women who felt as strongly about consent, as do I, yet we differed on what that meant. Tha catalyst that sparked the debate was an assertion by one that beognbtouched sexually while asleep was always rape, even in a relationship between two consenting adults who enjoyed that - a lot - because "you can't give give blanket consent. Ditto drunken sex between a consenting monogamous couple.
My assertions that I have the right to give access to my body whether drunk (rarely) or asleep (I sleep a lot more than i drink) were met with calling me a rape apologist, pro rape and anti woman. Those are quotes.
This led to discussing sex more globally and a debate between whether a woman choosing to be submissive sexually contributes to patriarchy and hurts all other women. I say no, they disagreed.
This led to a some jokes between myself an a friend, who agreed with me in the discussions, about spite fucking to piss them off. It amused me so I wrote a short nothing story about it.
Fwiw I don't consider myself to practice BDSM or pretend to write erotica for any genre. I write what I think about and on this site it''s the appropriate classsification for some of my stuff, broad categories are helpful for searching content and avoiding other, but that's all it is.
I agree with you wholeheartedly about weaving desire and consent into the scenes themselves and sometimes I do this better than others. Sometimes I fail at this completely. There are some authors here who do it beautifully and consistently....I'm not one of them.
My problem is I didn't write for a public audience so perhaps I shouldn't have posted them. I had some stuff I'd written for me and a close friend and was encouraged to post here...I should have re-read somethings through a strangers eyes before posting.
As far as judgement here, honestly I read the comments and if there is valid feedback - like this comment - I do take it in, positive or negative. The anon throw away insults with no substance ...I've been online too long to be bothered by that kind of thing. :)
I've got a multipart story in the queue to post but I don't plan to make a habit of posting here after that, but I do really appreciate your comment as I find this topic quite interesting and worthy of discussion.
Anonymousover 6 years agoThere is something for everyone along the endless spectrum. I happen to admire your writing abilities while not being a fan of a goodly portion of the content. I can appreciate, and often enjoy, the animalistic aspects of lust and power. Having read a tremendous amount of both stories and comments on Lit over several years, I seen patterns in writing and reactions. The rougher and sexy-nastier the better crowd is solid. The oh how horrible/put them in jail crowd is vocal as well. There are many of us in between. We have difficulties when an author (and I'm not saying this is you, just any author), over sells the harsh factor without any balance. If the reader is told time after time that 'this is insufferable', 'I hate this', the Dom is foaming at the mouth, the sub has been reduced to nothing, blah, blah, blah and there is not one single word given to support consent, desire, sanity/normality outside the presented scene, respect and care between - something, anything - then the reader is left with only what is presented. Yes, inferences can be made - but can be made in both directions. Is this a sane, intelligent, committed couple fulfilling established needs through mutually beneficial activities? Or...not. I am not saying every hot-n-heavy, raunch-a-delic scene should become a Tolstoy length love story dulled with copious detailed contracts and deep discussions. It takes so very little, actually. The nuances of word choice alone can accomplish it with no additions or subtraction to the action. A sentence or two sprinkled throughout to tell us that while she is screaming and suffering, she is enjoying it. Amazing how many authors seem to forget that or think it unimportant. While a literal pat on the head at the end is better than nothing, it won't neuter a Dom to show some appreciation throughout.
I don't think it judgemental to seek those basic things to elevate intense erotica away from the dank corner of actual torture porn trying to pretend to be bdsm erotica.
$0.02
Buffy_kggover 6 years agoAuthorI really appreciate this comment. You're right, not everyone understands the mutual consent aspects behind certain dynamics.
curiousoldmanover 6 years agoI rejoice in your determination and spirit of self.
As a man who is with a similar independent,intelligent woman we both understand our desires and needs.
Few on the outside realize that without mutual consent this scene would not occur.
Fewer still understand the control is actually in the hands of the woman.
Both understand that trust is the foundation.
