Understanding Bondage

Let me help you understand my views on this. Dom/sub relationships are not about the bondage or the spanking or calling one Sir - or the other any sort of pet names - but it more on the way that two people interact. There are some assumptions that can be made - but then while interacting - no assumptions should be made - that is where you need to find out your partner. I am very much into the bondage aspect -- think about it for a second -- all of these images with the fancy rope are not blindfolded - but I would imagine that you would have to be blindfolded during the tying. This can not be done super fast - and if you struggled - the artwork of the rope would not be done well.

So imagine the time that it would take - to get the ropes so artistically over and around you body -- think about being blind folded and my hands and the rope as they together move over your body -- the rope staying there -- you feel the pressure of it -- little by little you can relax your body - and still you will not move -- the rope bind you -- till you are completely tied -- it is a peace of living art - you are that art -- now like any other artist I would want to admire my art. Do you when you cook -- or bake a cake -- want to eat it right away - or do you want to savor in the creation of what you just made -- smell it - look at it - take it all in -- yes eventually consume it - for that is it's purpose -- just as you as my living art -- I would want to consume you - fulfill you - Take you.

The patience of the rope hopefully had done it's trick on you - making you understand your vulnerability - and also knowing - that you have given me your body to manipulate -- The roller coaster you ride for thrills -- knowing that the track will be safe - but then again you are not driving the little car and it goes along the track -- you have no control over it -- the tying of the rope is like the clack clack clack of going up the first hill in that little cart -- knowing that the wild ride is soon to come.

Once tied -- and adored -- I begin to explore you body -- there is no way for you to move my hands to where you want them -- or twist your body for me to reach the area you want my hands - but this is truly my exploration of you --for this the blindfold would come off -- you can witness my journey over your body -- and the visual impact of your restriction just makes the physical one that you were feeling - so much more real --

If I have done my job well -- you are just wet with desire - wanting to have me -- wanting me to come to the climax -- but that is in my control - and I never let you forget that -- You gave me that gift while I was tying you up -- at this point you would want to take it back -- you would want to cum - feel me inside you - but again -- because of the gift of your consent earlier -- I don't give you that opportunity to take control - you struggle a little bit -- you want so badly -- being a strong minded woman - you are used to getting to a point in "I Want" and you go after and get it -- but not this time --

Finally you stop the struggling -- you have let go - you resign your self to the fact that I will please you -- that your wants and needs will be taken care of - and all you have to do is allow them to happen to you -- That does not mean not participate in them - but like good ballroom dancers -- you follow my lead - you know that the master plan is mine - you look toward my body for clues -- and adjust accordingly because you know that it is safe to do so - and that I will be building to a mutual ecstasy -- Thus at this time - the ropes start coming off -- but not all at one time -- slowly like the beginning -- anticipation is the key -- You wanted this - you were wanting a lover that took his time -- that would take you to this height -- and even though you might feel like you are there - and you want to now fuck like a wild animal -- you feel my control -- my touch -- keeping that beast at bay -- but bringing it to the surface -- letting it serve me -- and eventually bringing out the beast in me --

I have teased that beast in me all this time - all those touches and manipulations of your body -- has awoken that beast in me - but it is slow to rise because he knows that I am in control - but he looks for the time that he can come out - but that is only when we are joined - and you are mine completely will I let him out. In that moment you feel me cum inside you - I growl and can come close to biting your neck - the beast is so much in control --every pore in my body open's up as well - my body is covered with a thin layer of sweat as you hear the beast like noises come out of me -- I hope you cum again with me this time -- but I know that I have made you cum several time before this moment -- showing you how I manipulate your body -- and actually at this split moment I don't care if you cum - I don't care at all -- gone is the human in me - just the beast revealed - but in a few moments that passes -- I withdraw from you -- a lay down -- catching my breath -- and I offer your my feet to rub (the only place I do not sweat - and ohhhhhhh a foot rub feels so good after I cum) -

Through your action of rubbing my feet - I feel the emotion in you - the adoration that you have - for taking you to that place - I can also feel the pride you have - for you have witnessed me out of control -- and you know what we have participated in was pure passion -- something that could never be achieved in a 10 minute romp on the bed.

So now you know what I think about bondage.