I discovered bdsm shortly before my 51st birthday.
I started out as a submissive, both in real life and - for awhile - online. Then I became a switch for about a year and, finally, now I'm a Domme.
I've done S/M, sensual Domination, DD/lg, petplay, and various other things. I believe that D/s is about power exchange and who's the "Boss" and that Topping/bottoming is about the kinky play stuff. They can either coexist or exist separately. I'm the kind of kinkster that believes you can have D/s, kink, AND love and kisses. I want it all.
Location
Bellingham WA