The mundane: 48, divorced, one son. (The most important person in my life.) I'm a technocrat, having worked as a programmer or technical manager all of my career. I'm the guy your friend knows who can fix that problem on your computer that's been bugging you for the last 4 months. The other: I love to hold a woman in my arms, I love to touch and caress her, to slowly open her to passion. I love sex, even when it's the ordinary, every day variety. Having a woman come in your arms is the most amazing feeling in the world. Sometimes I think it's better than my own orgasm. Over the last few years, however, I've discovered in myself a fascination with the sexual aspects of control. The idea of being able to create a situation where a woman has no choice but to do as I bid, and to use that situation to bring her to heights of sexual experience that she has never known before is exciting beyond description.
Location
Chicago area