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you don't want a comment on the poem, so I'm not voting. A diagnosis of "autism" by itself, is not that big of a deal. It is more a question of impairment. As for "WHAT DID WE DO", you don't blame yourself for not winning the lottery, why blame yourself here. It is now a question of what do you do now. Find out everything you can about it, your options, get second opinions, never do anything rash.

To put this in perspective, IF testing for dispositions, "defects", etc, had been more common, and IF my parents wanted a perfect baby...