All Comments on 'Breaking Her Down'

Why do so many think BDSM is only the SM? Why the extremes of humiliation, why is any necessary? The BD and D/S can function without it. Can some one please write that? Or maybe some one can hook a reader up?

I'm not turned on by crappy meanness, though obviously some folks must be. I only made it through this because it is so short. Well, author, points for having the balls to 'publish.' I'm sure you'll find a supportive audience yowling for more.