All Comments on 'Confessions of a Submissive'

I read one of your more recent stories and decided to peek at what else you have written. Interesting thoughts on what makes you submissive. I relate to you in many ways. I have my kinks pretty much figured out but it took me all of my 20's to truly understand myself.

Luckily, I married a great women who was very open about sex. We were pretty vanilla while dating and it wasn't until we were married that she discovered my "hidden kinks". I eventually wrote her a confession of sorts, very similar to this here. Together we have discussed everything and found a nice common ground. We have "play nights" every now and then to satisfy my submissive kinks. While I had many of the same over the top desires that you spoke about, most of those remain purely fantasy. Maybe once the kids are grown and out of the house we will really be able to indulge in these desires.

Hope you have found what you were looking for since you wrote this.

I really enjoyed reading this. It was so nice to get inside the mind of a submissive male, and you write and describe your feelings and thoughts with such clarity. I have always found the most enjoyment from being with submissive men who weren't total push overs in their average, daily life.

I have to change my vote. from 4to 5 after I read this a second time. You are extremely insightful. I gotta look back at my life. Maybe I got a story in me. I haven't written anything longer than a shopping list since I was in high school

I certainly wish I had read this a few years ago you actually just explained a lot of things about myself that I did not understand and have not been able to express these thoughts and feelings to a woman thank you so much I'm an old man now 71, but there's a 32-year-old woman that I want to give this story to and see how it goes. There are a couple of points that I will have to fine tune for myself, but mostly you hit the nail on the head thank you very much I'm inspired

Topping From The Bottom

I want. I want. I want. Nothing wrong with that but it is not submission. A huge problem for the submissive man is that women love to be submissive too. Be everything that a lover would want. It is not submission until you walk into town, without your car, to buy batteries for her toys, while you know that she going through her phone calls. Or, you are getting on with the housework and she is leaving for a night out, or a few days away, and you have learnt that it is not wise to ask where she is going or when she will come home. It is not submission until you are handwashing her knickers and would want to demand answers about stains etc, but do not. It is not submission until you bring the Velcro straps to the bedroom, along with the handcuffs and the tawse and the canes ready for your regular appraisement.it is not submission until you leave your car at home and use public transport and add the saved money to her funds even if such economy is completely unnecessary. Or, you are wearing a close fitting cage, and her friends all know. It is not submission until you address her friends as Miss Clare, Miss Zoe etc while dressed in a tee shirt which just about hides your cage, but which does show that you are wearing your bra, the one that is padlocked at the back. It is not submission until you are careful to keep your weight several pounds inside the limit, having learnt of her wishes, at appraisals

If you do find such a woman your pleasure is from your abasement. THAT is submission.