All Comments on 'How To Get Chicks Into Porn'

There are some very good "educational" videos available in Western Australia calle the "Lovers" series.

As the laws here are draconian( you cant show an erect penis, or any genitals) in porn the Lovers series is educational so you get to see a lot more. Also as they are instructional (such as how to perform fantastic Oral on your woman) you have the line of "but I just wanted to learn how to please you better"

Sexy_celeste

That's such a dumb stereotype girls hating porn. Come on this isn't the 1920s

The 75 rating is for being informative. However, the films you described in the first part of your essay are enough to put me off watching porn for life. Thoughts that sprang to mind included, "ewwwwww!" "what the fuck!?" and "damn, you could never pay me enough (to even watch that shit!)"

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As a female in my 40's, most of the female friends of my same age do not really enjoy porn. This stems from several things: 1. The sad reality of some female porn stars. Most women may chose this job and enjoy it, but there is still too high a percentage of women who are coerced, or get into it at too young an age to know better. What it takes out of their psyche is pretty brutal. <br><br>

2. Let's face it, most porn is made to appeal to males, not to females. Very little character build up, usually silly or implausable situations that are giggle-worthy, and then a whole lot of moaning and thrashing about, complete with cum being shot over tits, face or ass. For men, a big turn on. For lots of females, not so much. Lust is not the same as passion. Passionate sex is a huge turn on for me. Poorly acted lust just doesn't quite cut it.<br><br>

3. You mentioned this one already. The women in the vids are usually quite young, quite thin, with huge boobs. I don't really enjoy watching my lover get turned on by a younger, thinner, more well-endowed woman. I know it happens --- I just don't want to be a participant when it does. Same thing with the Hustler and Playboy mags. Told my guy that if he watched/read when I wasn't around, I totally understood, but to please have those put well away when I come to visit. <br><br>

4. But finally, I think women in their 20's and 30's are much more open to viewing porn and enjoying it. I think makers of porn who cater to women's desires probably are making lot of money. The question is -- do women who watch porn enjoy the same kind of porn that men do? I don't know.

How about starting her out with some softer stuff than that. Such as movies that don't actually show the cock-- it's just inferred that it's in. Also something with more of a plotline to reel her in.

If the objective is to make her Watch porn dont begin softcore: this is not the point. You loose Time & focus! By the way she as probably seen all kind of soft movie already... ThomX for your post I Mostly agree with you....

To really get chicks to do anything try communication. Why Porn? Sounds like a way to control someone...

All the best,

Ryan

It's super fun... My girlfriend is very open, but got totally into hogtied.com (not my idea). Tying girls up is hard work, but worth it.

So, I can't take any credit for introducing her to it, but I'm glad she went looking!

You can tell this is written by someone who hasn't been in too many meaningful relationships. Come back in 10 years and try again.