by Philippasubmaid
If humiliation is on the approved list then by all means use it when needed, if you try demeaning too often it becomes pointless. A lot is dependent on the mental health of the sub.
This right here ....“although I had safe words, I had no intention of using them. “ sends completely the wrong message it’s dangerous and stupid.
It’s common amongst subs to have a low self esteem, as a result every emotion is magnified, not using a safe word when you genuinely need to will only result in damage emotional/ physical.