by grvybrd
From similar experiences with my own wife I find it important to get her thinking and talking about how far she might be prepared to go for me.
She sometimes only gives me a hand job but if I can get to stroke her cunt and clit to give her an orgasm first then I am guaranteed a fuck.
The tricky negotiation is when I want to fuck her ass. Most times she only lets me fuck her pussy doggy style but in that position I will first tentatively nudge my cock at her puckered hole and say 'Yes? ' . If she says 'No' then I won't pursue it. That' s the only time I accept No for an answer without negotiation.
Give it up eagerly now or when you two are old and you want company his attitude will be forget it, I'm going fishing.
you have a limited number of years to weld his heart to yours. Take advantage of it.