by IndigoDarling14
it was at best dubious consent. I can easily understand the desire to “be taken” but to me this should be in an existing relationship. I know that the whole “dating” scene is something of a minefield, but that sudden stab of fear should only be “what is he going to do to me” in a sexual sense. It shouldn’t ever include thoughts of “oh shit do I even know him at all? Is he going to kill me, hurt me, dump me in the middle of nowhere, humiliate me?”...no it shouldn’t include those thoughts before you get to the sexual thought of what is he going to do with me? That’s clear evidence that there isn’t a strong enough level of trust, not yet.
Tess (UK)