by take the wife
My wife & I immigrated to Canada when she was 35. White men were atteacted to her like flies to honey.
My wife & i were once invited to a huge house-warming party. A rich bachelor guy got to know us and invited us to his own party at his cottage. There I realized my wife had a weakness for rich & powerful men. She aggresively flirted with them. She was teasing them. Much to my surprise i liked her that way, i called her "new & improved version." She was turning me on more than ever before. I admitted to myself i would take her back if she strayed...
You got the picture. We are stll married.